Yesterday, my Mom mentioned to me that she was going to the “Doctor”. I left it at that, since I don’t want to be nosy and knew she would volunteer the information if she felt like it.
When we spoke today, she told me about her schedule for the day and mentioned that she was going to the Homeopath, because she is feeling lightheaded and thinks it might be low blood pressure. If she had told me that she has low energy or a slight headache or something, I would have kept my mouth shut, but I know that blood pressure is not something to tempt fate with.
I asked her if she should not perhaps go to see a “real” doctor. She sounded confused by this statement and said that her aunt has gone to homeopaths for many years. I asked her if she knew what homeopathic medicine is, to which she responded that it was a “natural” remedy.
At first, she did not want to hear me out. I asked her if she would listen to me for five minutes, after which I will leave her to make her own decision.
I said to her that I love her and care about her and that medical problems like blood pressure, heart problems, diabetes etc is better left to professionals. I proceeded to explain the background of homeopathic solutions and how they are prepared. As I spoke, I saw the disappointment in my Mother’s eyes, bordering on hurt.
These f***ers have lied to my Mom all her life and now I have to be the one to burst the bubble.
She asked if I would cancel the appointment so that she could make one with her doctor. I said that she should go to the homeopath, but tell him that I would like to know what the difference is between the remedy he prescribed and water. She said that it sounds like a waste of money to go.
I’m not sure what she has done in the mean time, but I hope she went to the Medical Doctor’s office.
I know I did the right thing, but it broke my heart. (Yes, I’m a softy when it comes to my Mommy.)