I get to sleep late on Sundays ;D
I dont have to apologise for being me
I dont feel guilty stating an opinion (female thing)
I can go directly to sleep at night without feeling guilty for not saying a prayer
I can blaspheme as much as I like (and do)
I can act independently and dont have to ask permission from a male member of my family before doing something.
I can believe what I want because I want to.
I am able to bring my kids up my way instead of being dictated to (and they turned out to be pretty good kids)
I am comfortable in my own skin and dont worry about whether I’m transgressing some rule or another.
There’s so much actually, but they tend to be repetitive as it all boils down to the same thing:
Touché - As an ex-seventh day adventist - no guilt for eating meat, especially pork and seafood! I can dance and not just sit around at parties and drink and smoke. Also there are no special days where you aren’t allowed to swim or watch tv
another one that came up in my mind is that I am not scared to die (only the manner is which I may die): religions scare the shit out of their followers and are death focused.
Yes. The big switch off is how I refer to it. I also dont have to worry about ending up having to learn how to sit on a cloud and play a harp and spend all of eternity with my “loved ones” whom I dont in particular care for. That in itself would constitute hell to me.
No booze, no weed, no debauchery, no nicotine, no partying, and about a billion christians…
Heaven does sound like hell.
Yes. The big switch off is how I refer to it
I work with some sharp people, but once again religiosity seems to permeate. One guy, on some idle day, probably suddenly realizing the implications of my beliefs, which I’d made very clear, inquired:
“So, you don’t believe in heaven and god, etc… but surely you believe something happens after you die?”
“No”
“But, how would that work?”
“You know when you turn a PC off? What happens to it? Does it keep processing?”
“You mean, you really believe if you die, it’s like a PC, you’re just… gone?”
“Yes”
Not just him, but everyone within earshot was shocked at this statement. It is AMAZING to me that these people had never ever even contemplated the possibility that a dead brain means the end of life, period. Even the more secular-slanting ones still insisted there’s “something” after death.
You have these moments as an atheist that you get to fully appreciate how little other people understand about you.
Hahah yes - sounds shite! That’s if most of them actually end up there given their behaviour !!!
Or even worse 70 virgins - no wonder there’s no female suicide bombers - imagine that as a reward… disappointment after disappointment
There’s a woman in work who prays for my soul cos she’s so concerned where it’s going to end up - she gets very uncomfortable when I say "It’s ok we’ll all be in the same place either way - the ground
I got quite a few of those as well, I know my S/O and I are on my MIL’s prayer list every Wednesday evening during her “Ladies fellowship” meetings and I often get little notes on my desk stating that a prayer was said for me. Sweet actually, when I’m in the mood for sweetness, most of the times it just annoys me though.